The story of Harbans Kaur is just one of the thousands of untold stories of partition of the sub-continent. It is a tale of unimaginable suffering and the ordeal a woman went through for over half-a-century.
Kaur, 75, a Sikh woman was married to a Muslim belonging to Muzaffarabad before partition and had two sons, Karamat and Qudrat. But during the exchange of population between India and Pakistan, the army sent her out from pakistan as she was termed a 'foreigner'. Her sons, who were six and seven years old then, remained in Pakistan.
Her husband, an armyman Sakhiullah, could not stop her forced deportation. She was handed over to her family who arranged her marriage with one, Sikh, Kaur Singh, who died a few years later. All these years Harbans Kaur dreamt that one day she would see her sons again but had no idea how to search them.
Two years back she went to Pakistan on pilgrimage to Panja Sahib where she met another pilgrim Jassi Singh, on whose taviz, she could read Muzaffarabad. Singh promised to her that he would do his best to look for her sons. In 2005, he ultimately succeeded (a professor recognised the old photo given by her) and Kaur spoke to her sons on phone.
Once again she applied for visa. The mother and sons met after nearly 60 years during the Guru Nanak's birth anniversary celebrations. Now Kaur's sons don't want her to go back but the duration of visa has expired. Politics is standing between the mother and her sons.
Poet Zahida Hina narrated this emotional story. 'When a Samjhauta Express' will be run for such Hindu, Sikh and Muslim women in India and Pakistan', she asks, adding that 'in rishtoN ke saamne mazhab, reet-rivaaj sab haar jaate haiN'.
Monday, November 20, 2006
Indian Sikh women meets Muslim sons after 59 years
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5 comments:
ah truly emotional! stories like these will always remind us of barbaric ancestors and the bloody partition that we had
you know, when the partition happened, and people left their stuff behind, no one believed that it will be forever.. how many such stories will we tell and be sorry for?
Nice blog adnan - I just discovered it through a comment you left on kafila. I'll definitely be back.
I am 31 male Indian and obviously the partition took place 29 odd years before I was born but reading story like yours knowing how many people this must have happened always brings tears to my eyes.
I hope that the majority of us Indians and Pakistanis have peace and love for each other in our hearts and realise how much we've lost.
I am Hindu Punjabi but never thought any more or less of other religions and would be happy to pray to Bhagwat Geeta, Granth Sahib, Quran or Bible.
Wish every unfortunate loved one gets united who got torn by this pathetic borderline.
N Jalandhar
A truly touching tale, and for the
How do we know blogger: You come across as a heartless indv., when you're parted from your loved ones, you will know what it feels like, until then, try and read up about the partition. It was an unfortunate time in the Indian sub continent and ironically, we learnt nothing from it.
There are still many families separated from their loved ones.
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